Resentment

It’s Up to Us to Break the Chain of Negativity

May 16, 2018

Face it. Amidst the beauty and wonder of our human existence, the world is often wrong. The stream of life is cluttered with flotsam and jetsam containing dangerous debris. Navigating its currents can at times seem an impossibly titanic voyage. But it isn’t. Once you know the secret of how to meet the pressures of the world…

We Aren’t Meant to Judge

May 15, 2018

We aren’t supposed to live with anger inside us, pushing us to do and say things we don’t want to do or say. We’re supposed to overcome the lash of resentful, negative energy and then never die from it. The problem is we aren’t being shown how. Parents are failing. The religions are failing. Self-reliance seems the…

Do “Expert” Solutions to Stress Work?

May 8, 2018

If you could handle stress properly life would be very different than it is now. The problem is you think you already handle it well. And it isn’t true. You’ve been fooled by your own suppression. As we suffer the unpleasant effects of secret anger and unrecognized resentments—anxiety, depression, and physical ailments related to the…

Who Pisses You Off?

April 17, 2018

Once you know the secret to handling the annoying people around you, even the irritating personalities in media, politics and industry, you’ll find peace within. You will find the strength to stand up to bullies and tyrants with grace or to properly stand down to those who deserve your respect. You’ll know the difference. Until, then, when…

The Real Remedy for Racism

March 23, 2018

Individuals we call “racist” are very misunderstood people. Exploited by politicians and corporate organizers for the tension and the problems they help foment, they are problematic, for sure. They cause unrest and heated division among us. But, if clear-seeing, aware people can recognize these troubled folks for what they really are and stop reacting improperly to them…

Can Anger Really be Managed?

December 22, 2017

Some people believe that it’s normal and at times even right to be resentful. Psychologists teach their patients how to use willpower to control their anger, convincing them that emotions, even negative ones, like anger, are a justified and natural condition—an acceptable validation of our humanness. They’ll teach theories and market systems designed to manage…

Become Immune to Anger

October 30, 2017

If you believe that resentfulness is the bane of existence for every human being, and would like to get free from it, then please know that there is only one way to not resent. That is to become immune to it. That happens anytime we step back from our thinking. It becomes a way of life once…

Resentment Starts the Ball Rolling

September 1, 2017

Ask anyone who’s loved, lived or worked with one, and they’ll tell you that alcoholics, drug addicts, really anyone beset with obsessive behavior and substance abuse of any kind, are selfish and self-centered bores. It’s their leading trait. But this observation goes only part way toward discovering the solution. The deeper, dark question, the answer…